I think my partner has dementia. How do I convince them to see a doctor?

Remember that many conditions have symptoms similar to dementia, so it is important not to assume that someone has dementia just because some of the symptoms are present. Strokes, depression, alcoholism, infections, hormone disorders, nutritional deficiencies and brain tumours can all cause dementia-like symptoms. Many of these conditions can be treated. 

If your partner is reluctant to see a doctor, this can be a tricky situation. They may not be aware of the changes in their abilities that you see. You might try one of the following:

• Make sure the doctor knows of your concerns before the appointment. Be as specific as possible. This checklist can help you prepare for your doctor’s visit.
• Suggest she go for an annual check-up. She may be more comfortable getting an overall check-up than seeing the doctor for memory problems. Many symptoms that look like Alzheimer’s disease can be caused by other treatable conditions, so it’s essential to get a thorough assessment if you have concerns.
• Contact the doctor’s office and ask if they can invite your partner for a check-up. If the doctor suggests the appointment, your partner might be more willing to go.
• Be sure to provide a lot of reassurance. A calm, caring attitude at this time can help overcome the person’s very real worries and fears.